Top tips for separated parents to help manage Christmas

With Christmas fast approaching, the Family Team here at Stone King has put together some practical tips to help separated parents navigate what can sometimes be a challenging time — all with the aim of making it enjoyable and stress-free time for your children.

1. Plan ahead – agree on arrangements for the festive period well in advance to avoid last minute stress or conflict.
2. Be flexible – special occasions may require adjusting usual child arrangements so that your child can spend time with both parents.
3. Keep your child out of decisions – avoid asking your child to choose. They want to please both parents, so make decisions yourselves.
4. Reassure and stay connected – let your child know that it’s ok to miss the other parent and ensure they can communicate freely during your time together.
5. Respect each other’s time – quality time with both parents and respecting agreed schedules is important.
6. Encourage thoughtful gifts – support and encourage your child to put together a gift such as a card or a handmade painting or drawing for the other parent.
7. Focus on wellbeing – enjoy the holidays and allow time for everyone to relax and recharge after a challenging year.

At Stone King, we are passionate about working with our clients to minimise conflict and preserve family relationships wherever possible. We have an in-house team of family law experts, and qualified family mediators. If you found these tips useful and would like to discuss your circumstances with one of our team, please get in touch today.