Co-parenting apps: how to decide whether to use one

When parents separate, they may well be finding it hard to communicate through traditional communication apps such as text, emails or WhatsApp, Many parents find the convenience of parenting apps, particularly ones which have the option of a calendar or the ability to have video calls with their children, very helpful. However, how do you choose a suitable app?

Much will depend on your family’s specific needs, communication style and legal considerations. 

There are various co-parenting apps on the market and the key features that parents should look for are:

1. Shared calendar for co-ordinating parenting time and activities.

2. Time-stamped messages for accurate record-keeping.

3. Expense tracking tools to manage shared expenses and financial obligations.

4. Document sharing capabilities for important files and documentation.

5. User-friendly interface accessible on any mobile device.

To get the most out of a co-parenting app, we suggest:

1. Setting up a shared calendar and adding the child’s arrangements, school events, holidays and appointments. 

2. Keep communication clear and respectful.

3. Centralise important documents by uploading them to the app.

4. Record expenses such as school fees, clothing etc.

If communication between you is proving difficult, it might be worth considering mediation. Mediation can support you in creating a parenting plan and help establish clear, respectful ways to communicate moving forward.

At Stone King, we are passionate about working with our clients to minimise conflict, and preserve family relationships wherever possible. If you would like to discuss your circumstances with one of our team, please get in touch today.