Date updated: Friday 24th January 2025

Navigating through family disputes, whether related to divorce, child arrangements, or financial arrangements, can be an emotionally draining and often confusing experience. Whilst many couples can see the benefit of their mediator also being legally trained, there can also be many benefits in instructing a family lawyer who is also trained in family mediation. 

The family legal process and family mediation process, although related, have different approaches. Family lawyers primarily focus on providing legal advice and protecting their client’s rights, while, when your family lawyer is also trained as a mediator, they will have an in-depth understanding of not only your legal needs but also how the breakdown of your relationship will have affected you. This experience can help clients navigate the process with legal accuracy, while also being mindful of the sensitive nature of family dynamics. They can offer a more comprehensive strategy, helping you to understand both the legal implications and the emotional considerations of your situation.

Family law disputes can sometimes generate intense emotions, particularly when children are involved or there are significant financial concerns. A lawyer who is also trained in family mediation is likely to approach matters with a more neutral, conciliatory attitude, aiming to reduce tension and conflict. A family lawyer who understands the principles of mediation can offer practical solutions and encourage constructive dialogue, creating an environment where both parties are more willing to cooperate and reach a mutually beneficial agreement.

Better outcomes for children

For families with children, the mediation process is often the best way to ensure that their interests are prioritised and preserved. A lawyer who is also trained as a mediator is often better equipped to assist in developing arrangements that benefit the children – they are focused on creating an arrangement that is in the best interests of the child. Their training allows them to handle delicate situations with care and promote solutions that foster positive relationships between parents.

Ultimately, whilst most family lawyers are committed to resolving family disputes as amicably as possible, the mediation skills that your lawyer can bring when they are dual trained can hugely benefit you and your family.

At Stone King we can help with a variety of legal family matters, such as divorce and children’s issues. We can also assist with mediation, and have solicitors trained in both family law and mediation. For further information and to find out how we can help with your unique situation, please get in touch today.